Separation

Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.
-- Katharine Hepburn

In Juno's realm, partners may choose short-term time away from each other -- business trips or separate vacations. These do not usually damage a committed relationship.

Living in different cities may put a strain on even a strong relationship, but some couples thrive with the distance.

Breaking Up

Sometimes separation becomes permanent. It takes courage to admit that your relationship is not working. Women often feel responsible for the health of the union, and so we feel like we have failed if it falls apart.

Breaking up might seem like the shadow side of Juno, and it can be a long and painful process. But if the relationship was unhealthy and beyond repair, a final separation may be the best path to a healthier phase of life that's happier.

When your heart is hurting, it's hard to see a breakup as a positive end to a phase of your life.

We may jump immediately into another partnership -- a rebound partner -- because we fear to be alone. Even when we know we're not ready for another deep union, we tell ourselves that "this time it will be different." It's usually not that simple.

More on Separation:

Abuse
Divorce
Healing
Understanding

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